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Idril

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Posted: 22.11.2006, 20:37 Post subject: Deleting eddiefever plus ehr posts |
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She asked for it, so we're doing it. _________________
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Food for one, food for all! (especially for me hihihi )
Let The Bodies Hit The Floor (Drowning Pool)
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Posted: 22.11.2006, 20:37 Post subject: Advertisment |
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Mela

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Posted: 22.11.2006, 20:39 Post subject: |
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Nooooo. Idril,please try to make her stay. |
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Idril

Gender:  Joined: 06 Aug 2006 Posts: 3950 Location: Germany
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Posted: 22.11.2006, 20:40 Post subject: |
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I tried, but she doesn't want to. If you want to talk to her, to that, I'm pretty angry at her right now and it's not good if I talk about her now, because I would only do it in a bad way. So please understand why I don't post any details. For details you have to ask eddiefever. _________________
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newnativspirit Administrator

Joined: 31 Jul 2006 Posts: 4775 Location: Germany
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Posted: 22.11.2006, 23:28 Post subject: |
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I´ve been thinking about it some time, but after Idril, who is also the moderator of this board, told me that it didn´t make any sense to talk to eddiefever, it´s the best for this board to delete the thread. I´ll keep eddiefever in the member list for another week. Maybe once she calmed down a bit, she will see things different and might want to come back, but I doubt.
Idril was trying hard to explain to eddiefever that she just misunderstood the statement. At the end she got attacked as well and that was the point where she decided to stop talking about it.
I´ll delete the thread now and bring up another one ... the topic in general is a good one and so I don´t want to miss it on this board.
I hope you all agree with our decision - actually it was eddiefever who asked us to delete her. I´m really, really sorry that it ended up this way, but we really tried to talk to eddiefever, but she didn´t WANT to listen! There was no reason for this fight and it doesn´t make sense at all ... _________________ Thanks for being a member of the NewNativeSpirit-family! |
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Idril

Gender:  Joined: 06 Aug 2006 Posts: 3950 Location: Germany
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Posted: 24.11.2006, 12:22 Post subject: |
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Thanks for explaining, Anne. I still can't think about this subject, without getting mad and sad. _________________
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Mela

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Posted: 24.11.2006, 12:37 Post subject: |
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| Idril wrote: | | Thanks for explaining, Anne. I still can't think about this subject, without getting mad and sad. |
What really happend? |
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Idril

Gender:  Joined: 06 Aug 2006 Posts: 3950 Location: Germany
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Posted: 24.11.2006, 12:51 Post subject: |
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I don't want to say anything bad about her. That we started to fight is also my fault. It still hurts to talk about this subject, because eddiefever is/was (I'm not sure if she still wants to be) my friend. All I will say is that she acted the most stubborn way you can imagine. She didn't listen to me and turned the words in my mouth around. She didn't read my posts right and in the end she even told me I wasn't reading her's right, which is complete nonesense. And whatever I said she still had the opinion, that Anne had attacked her and that her apologize was a lie. And she even blamed her to act like CC and she told me I had no idea of how CC could act (if I really had no idea about this, then why the hell did I leave CC's board???). She made me so angry. And when I asked her, to forget this whole thing and come back to the board she said she could do this, but that would mean she would pretend to be happy. If she really forgot what had happened, why the hell should she be pretending then??? And then she apologized without meaning it and aaaaarg the way she said it made me sooooo angry!!!!!
And I had told Anne before that eddiefever would take this message personal and eddiefever used to use this argument against both of us. And when I told her, why I knew she would take this message personal (because she had already done that on CC's board and other boards by apoligizing for things that weren't for her, that didn't even deal with her. There only had to be a quote of her and she came and apologized with a huge message) she told me to proof it, because that wa sher right etc. How shall I proof something when I promissed never to return to CC's board?
All I can say is I really tried my best but she just didn't want to listen to me or believe that she did a mistake (she even said "maybe I did a mistake, but as long as I don't beieve it it is no mistake") or she just didn't want to be honest enough to say "ok, I made a big mistake, I'm sorry." I still get mad and sad when I think about the discussion we had and I'm not happy with how this whole thing turned out to be either. I wished it had been different, but you all girls knew how Anne ment her message, didn't you? _________________
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evenstar

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Posted: 25.11.2006, 12:13 Post subject: |
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I understood. I've always said that the internet can be a dangerous tool because written words are open for interpretation. You can't always tell if somebody is saying something in a nice way or yelling at you, for example. Sometimes people take it as a personal attack when that wasn't the way it was intended. I should know. I've lost friends this way unfortunately.
It's a shame this had to happen. _________________ "Death is just another path, one that we all must take" |
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Idril

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Posted: 25.11.2006, 12:42 Post subject: |
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Yeah, I know. But that she still didn't want to change her mind when everyone told her that she missunderstood the message... _________________
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newnativspirit Administrator

Joined: 31 Jul 2006 Posts: 4775 Location: Germany
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Posted: 26.11.2006, 16:51 Post subject: |
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Eddiefever is thinking about coming back. So as soon as she´s made a decision I will delete this thread. I just want to let you know.
Plus I want to tell you that I´m deleting pictures out of the quotes, because they need too much space on the board and slows it down. So, if you answer a post and their is no need for the pic, please, delete it before posting. Thank you! _________________ Thanks for being a member of the NewNativeSpirit-family! |
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Idril

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Posted: 26.11.2006, 18:29 Post subject: |
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it's cool she wants to come back. I'm glad to hear that.
And about tjose pic-thing: Np with me (I hope :wink: ) _________________
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eddiefever

Gender:  Joined: 29 Aug 2006 Posts: 1565 Location: The Netherlands
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Posted: 26.11.2006, 18:37 Post subject: |
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hey your online
how was your b-day? _________________ "Give, and it shall be given to you. For whatever measure you deal out to others, it will be dealt to you in return"
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Idril

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Posted: 26.11.2006, 18:41 Post subject: |
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Written in the b-day-topic :wink: _________________
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eddiefever

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Posted: 26.11.2006, 18:55 Post subject: |
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yeah i saw it a bit to late
hihihi _________________ "Give, and it shall be given to you. For whatever measure you deal out to others, it will be dealt to you in return"
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Idril

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Posted: 26.11.2006, 19:01 Post subject: |
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doesn't matter :wink: _________________
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