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    Re: Sexual Castody

    lilysan - 02.08.2007, 16:11

    Sexual Castody
    I want to tell everyone very seriously, that noone from our Team and no single Fan of japanese Music, etc. people in general with a healthy mind, tolerate in just the smallest way the following told behaving.

    I also want to tell very seriously, that the following told Situations in no way are only a german Problem. This Behaving is in every country. Please don´t get a wrong picture of Germany. The following told gets punished at maximum from the most, if not all, even the Hip Hopscene liking, people!

    The only -beeings-, that tolerate the following, are perhaps the ones, that are responsible for this vanishing of all Worthy and everything what´s good and holy. Which are the - I can´t believe that I speak this word in this case- Artists! They influence their without this never so pervertert Fanatics to this Behaving.

    Enough of the warning words, prepare for the pure Horror!
    Found while the logout at Hotmail.

    Sexual Castody - Total Porno!
    From Walter Wüllenweber

    If Children don´t learn anymore what Love is.
    Parents watch Hardcoremovies with their children. 14 year olds meet up for Groupsex. Their Idols sing about Raping. A part of the economy drifts to sexual custody.

    Something´s missing. You don´t recognize it at once. Even Thomas Rüth needed some time, until he knewed what´s missing, what confuses him. As he watched the youth, he saw: "If they are together with someone, they don´t kiss." They are 12, 13 or 14 years old and don´t hold hands nor cuddle. They aren´t shy. Not at all. Many of these Children are having Sex together.

    Thomas Rüth is a Social Pedagoge. He leads the Youthhelpnetwork of the Arbeiterwohlfahrt in Essen-Katernberg, a district with very huge social problems. Many times he and his collegues visit Familys that cannot get on without help. If the Socialworkers visit them, there´s most of the time the TV turned on. But not each time there is to see the Noon-shit of RTL 2. It gets common that the program comes from the DVDplayer: Pornos. And the Children are also at the Couch.

    The youth is not kissing. Children are watching Pornos. Both has to do something with each other. In Pornos, there are no Kisses. "Many of this children grow up in an emotional distressed area. They know everything, really everything about all sexual Positions. But if we tell them something about Love, about Tenderness, then they actually don´t understand at all what we are talking about", says Thomas Rüth. Exactly that is, what´s missing.


    "Porno - like a epidemic"
    "The Children are full with this Pictures. And they don´t get them out of their heads", says Gabriele Heinermann. She also is a Social Worker. She cares about Girls in Berlin-New Cologne, Germanys most wellknown Problemdistrict. Madonna is the Name of the Club, that she leads. Three years ago, she heared the first time in her Life the word "Gang-Bang". A 14 year old brat from New Cologne told: "At Saturday I do Gang-Bang." Heinemann did a Recherche, what that means: Gang - the Gang. Gang-Bang - a whole Gang of Men jumps on a Women. A Standart in actual Pornos. "At first I thougt that the small Girl only wantet to impress. But that really was like this. And it is like an epidemic."

    In many Youthclubs in Berlins Undergrounddistrics, Sexuality of the Youth is worrying the Socialworkers as much as their Violence is doing. Many are afraid of letting 14 year olds for a long time alone in a room. They fear that if they come back, to find the boys with the pants down. And in front of that kneeing girls. That happened many times. "The Picture of our Youth about Sexuality is total imprintet by Pornography", says Gabriele Heinemann.

    Mother has Sex- Child watches
    The lament about soft Sexualmoral is older than the Miniskirt. But this time, the warnings don´t come from Fundamentalfeminists or prude Churchmen. They come from Teachers, Socialpedagoges, Educationprofessors, Braindoctors, Therapeuts, Socialprofessors and Socialworkers in Youthhelping Agencys. They see nothing less than a sexual Revolution. But it´s not about free love. This has nothing to do with Freedom and Love. The engine for this upheaval of Sexuality are no Ideals. It is Pornography. What´s confronting Thomas Rüth or Gabriele Heinemann day for day, is a castody: a sexual castody.

    Each Noon, the Streetworker Ayten Köse watched a Group of boys that hanged out at the Street right in Front of her Agency in New Cologne. "They was around nine, ten years old. And all the time, they made fun of this one boy. It became only worser.", she told. So she finally talked to him. He tried to escape her arguments. It was, so he told, because of his Mother, her men and so on. The Mother held little shows for her son and his Friends. If they visitet him at home, then she liked to show them a Pornomovie. From time to time they also was allowed to watch her and her lover during Sex. "Of course I talked to the Mother about that", says Ayten Köse." But she only replied: "I don´t know, what you want. That is only Sex. That´s normal."

    Bernd Siggelkow is an evangelic Preachermen. "Bernd, Bernd. Do you wear X-Strings?", shouts a nine year old through the dinnerhall. "The Boyfriend of my Mother always wears so superhot stuff." Siggelkow smiled shy. 1995, he founded in Berlin-Hellersdorf the "Arche" (Arch). The children from the district find there, what they cannot find in their Familys: Grownups, that do something with them, and something warm to eat. In the past years, Siggelkow recognized a drastic changing at the children. "The life of this children is completely sexualized", says Siggelkow. Many times, the children come with their problems to him. "Just yesterday, there was an eleven year old. She wantet to know, if she´s still normal, because she never had Sex."

    If Siggelkow speaks with the Parents of the Archechilds, than most of the time with the Mothers. "There are no Fathers here." Some Mothers lament, that their Children annoy them. "Then I ask, when they annoy them. And they reply: At Sex." Siggelkow meets Mothers that make up their mind "to try out lesbian once". Because they think it´s so nice in Pornos. He meets Mothers, that don´t understand why their children act strange, if they let the doors of the sleepingroom open if they (the mothers) have Sex with Strangers. He meets Mothers, "for them Sex is the absolute Highlight of their Life". Most times, it´s also the only one.

    Sex as Successexperience
    The Relationships change so rasant, especially in the Underground. The Men are most of the time not anymore the foodgiver of the Family. These Roll is now overtaken by the State. That makes it more easy for the Partners to depart. Men and Women are most less an economical unity, most less partners-in-fate, most less partners-for-live. What stays is the Sexuality. She gets a new Importance. Especially in the life of many Women. Without good School Diploma, without a Jobtraining, Women have no realistic Chance to get a good Job these days. It is very hard for Women from the Underground to get respectet, educatet, to be sucessful. But they can be "sucessful" in Sexuality. The Sexuality gets a new Meaning. She gets a new Role, a new Function in Life. Sex gets that, what is a Job for other people, a Study, the Sport or like training an Instrument - the possibility, to be sucessfull and happy about it.

    "But the stupid thing is: It doesn´t works", says Thomas Rüth from Essen. "We watch this with sorrow. Many Women suffer under this kind of Sexuality." The Urging is too much for them.

    Influence from Porno nearly uninquired
    How many people watch Pornos many time and how that changes their Sexuality and Personality, "that is poorly noone inquiring here", says Volkmar Sigusch, the Godfather of german Sexualinquiring. The latest Study to that is actually from himself. Which time, that is hard to remember for the 66 year old Men. But the Method: He showed testpersons Pornodias. Dias! This times, there was no Video, no DVD, and of course no Internet.

    "The State of Inquiry about Pornography is very thin in Germany", says Professor Jakob Pastötter. He wrote a Doctorarticle about Pornography, but on the Kinseyinstitute in the USA. Today, he´s Professor of the German Economy for socialeducative Sexualinquiry. "You cannot examinate the effects, that are caused due to permanent Pornoconsume mostly in the Underground" says Jakop Pastötter. The Esthetic, the Language, the Behaving in Pornomovies - "all that becomes Roleidols for the ones, that don´t have Idols anymore."

    Jakob Pastötter says: "Pornography gets the Leadculture of the Underground."

    Of course, not the whole Economy watches Pornos, not only the Underground. "But the Underground is consuming more Pornos. Often daily", says Pastötter. An important mark of allday in different levels of economy is their behaving with media. People with low education are watching longer TV and also different channels as most people in Economy. The Criminologyst Christian Pfeiffer calls that "medial castody". Directly goes everything into each other: Trashtalkshows at noon with Live-fathertest or pierced Mothers, that do it with the Boyfriends of their Daughters, Pornos at Evening and between that the own Sexuality. The Borderlines disappear. Who never learned to take care Media competent, has it very hard to pull Fiction away from Reality. That´s why Pornos influence different people in different ways. The pressure on Children is the most effective.

    Children cosplay Pornostars
    Children learn through watching and doing. Since now, Sexuality was not included to that. She was not in the public. Young lovers didn´t "learned" the Love, they "explored" it. Today, children can watch in the Internet at each time watch countless persons while they have Sex - and learn this way the Sexuality through watching. Idols are not the Lovers, that feel something for each other. The Standarts are Situations without any feeling, Intimacy without respecting the Person.

    Jakob Pastötter recognized: The Movies became way more hard and brutal. "Just for the intensive users of Pornography, the Standarts have to get harder each time, if not, it´s not affective." A Movie, in which a Men and a Women only sleep with each other, and on top of that tenderly, will not be bought by anyone today anymore.

    But what is a Bestseller on the Pornomarket? What excites the Consumers?

    Venus, that is the name of the worldwide biggest Pornomess. Each year it is held in Berlin, and each year she´s growing for one or two more halls. At the Tresen of the fairstalls, Women lie there for puplic fiewing. Hordes of Men are getting to their feet and photograph with digicams their (the women´s) holes. On huge Diawalls, the Branche shows a performanceshow of the female abdomen. "It´s getting too much for me", says a ca. 40 year old Lady, that guards a stall with countless PornoDVDs. She thougt that this would be a common fairjob. "Erotic they said. But what has this to do with Erotic. All few minutes, such a pervert shows up and asks me, where the pregnancy Pornos are." There are many shelfmeters of them. Other Bestsellers are games with fecals. And of course Violence in all variations.

    Lust for Pain and Violence
    "Porno, that is Lifestyle today", says Gian Carlo Scalisi. His Card tells "Managing Director" from "21 Sextury Video". His Firm makes really sucessful Pornomovies. "Our Customers come from all kinds of economy, not only from the Underground", says Scalisi. "Minimal 20, perhaps even 25 percent are Middle- or Highground." Scalisis Customers want "Gonzomovies". That are Pornos without any Storyline. In a Studio in Munich, the Producers prepare a plank bed. They lay a Women on it. Then, three or four Men rape her. Gang-Bang. All Actors, also the Women, are Amateurs, swears Scalisi. Why? "Amateurs act different. Our Customers feel that. About the Women, I mean, you see that: They really feel the Pain."

    Pornos that see today well, are no Erotic Movies. Their Storyline is Violence. Sexual Violence.

    "It´s awesome", says Melanie. She´s 19 years old, just tries to get her Highschooldiploma on the second way and visits together with her friend the Venus. The Friend also is called Melanie and 20 years old. They don´t have their Boyfriends with them, they prefer to spend the Weekend with a Motorbikerace. The Melanies startet early to watch Porn. "Well it wasn´t this early. With around eleven years. Normal, just like the others", says the older Melanie. Her Mother, where she grewed up without Father, always had many Videos and later DVD´s in the shelfs. "I also watched them, of course." The younger Melanie "also did that this way".

    The Melanies know, which Movies they like. "The harder Stuff. We know everything else already." Mostly, the debates with friends are about the Content of the newest Pornos. "Sure, Stuff like Gang-Bang, that are huge topics. Everyone is talking about that and asks itself: Should I really do this?"

    Are Movies, that show sexual Violence, making the watcher violent, or are they acting like medicine? "The Katharsis-Hypothese is not true. We know: Such Movies only power that up", says Professor Klaus Mathiak. He is Neurobiologist and Behavingpsychologist at the Universityclinic Aachen and leads a Inquiryproject, that inquires how Violentmedia works for the Brain and the Behaving of People. Everything, what gets repeatet often - the Tennispunch, playing an instrument, train vocables -, changes the brain. People learn.

    Violence also has to be learned by people. You have to overcome a borderline. Boxers train that with special techniques. "At the same way, Violent Videogames are working", says Mathiak. "The Users can only be sucessful, if they learn to block away the Empathy with their Victims." Wich means the sympathy. "At Users, that play for a long time very intensive, we have proof that there are specific changes in the brain." Pornos, especially Violent Pornos, the same Mechanism is working. A Person, that often and especially is watching Violent Sex and Gang-Bangszenes, where Women feel "real Pain", the Brain is changing. "To get turned on when you see suffering People, for that you have to block the Empathy, if not, it´s not working. And you have to learn that - if you watch it over and over again."

    The pornographic fiew is a fiew without learning. If Pornography finally gets a common part of allday life, then not only Sexuality of a person is changing, but also his or her whole beeing. "Then Situations, that you thought of unnormal before, become normal", says Professor Mathiak.

    Lost the Ability to feel
    People which lost the feeling for normal and sick, for natural and pervertet, for beautiful and disgusting, sometimes find themselves in the Advicecenter of the psychosocial Agency in New Cologne. In Summer, the Therapists got visitet by a Mother, which six year old Son pulled other pupils of this class into an edge. He pulled the pants of the girls and also his own down and played like he would have Sex with the girls. A new Game: Raping. "That is nothing a six year old thinks about", says the Psychothereapeut Karl Wahlen, Leader of the Advicecenter. The Mother told him, that she often watches with her Lifepartner Movies that have Raping Scenes in it. And that her Son would be allowed to watch them too.

    "If Children watch something like this with their Parents, strenghtens that the calming effect", says Wahlen. He also explained that to the Mother. A few weeks later, she came back. She couldn´t stop to watch the Pornos, and also not her Lifepartner. But they wouldn´t watch it together with their son. He would be sent into his room. To watch Pornos there. But this time alone.

    "Shame and Disgust aren´t working by the most of them. The Borders disappear" says Karl Wahlen. He cares about girls, that somewhere -on the Badmintontable, at the children´s playground or under the balcony of a neighbour- have Sex with a group of boys. The ones that don´t do anything right now, film the Scenes with their Cellphones and put these Movies on the Net. "The Concurrency, which the girls have during Sex, is massive", says Karl Wahlen. "You recognize fast in the Theraphy, what they feel on the inside, that that´s nothing good for them. But then they often say: ´What do I have but this?´"

    The Heroes: Bushido, Sido, Frauenarzt
    The Heroes, the Idols of this Children, are called Sido, Bushido, Frauenarzt (Womens Doctor) and King Orgasmus One. That are Pornorapper. Many of their Songs get never played in the Radio, because they are on the Index. They are statet as a danger for the youth. But they still got heared mostly from the youth. And from children. In the Internet, everyone can download them without any problems. The Songs of the Pornorapper are Bestseller. Sido is the most famous one of them. The Hit that made him wellknown, is the "Arschficksong" (Assfucksong). In this Song, he sings about how he rapes -anal- a small girl, Katrin: "Katrin screamed out in Pain. I liked it... Her Ass bleeded. And I came."

    The Girls are crazy for Sido. He´s an Idol for the Boys. Even groundschoolers can tell his Textes. "And they only talk in this language", says Gabriele Heinemann from Madonna in New Cologne. "Each second Sentence is: "Ey, I fuck you in the Ass.""

    Sidos biggest Concurrent is Bushido. In the past year, he got honoured with the Echo and the MTV Europe Music Award. What for Sido is the "Arschficksong", is for Bushido the Song "Gang-Bang", which begins like this: "A dig in the Ass, a dig in the Mouth, a dig in the Vagina, now we really bang." Bushido fills the biggest halls. The Concertuniform of the Girls is a T-Shirt which says "Gang-Bang". Many Children show up with their Parents at the Lives. "He´s so hot, he´s so hot, he´s hot", says a Mother from Hohenschönhausen wich waits with her twelf year old Son in front of the Columbia Hall in Berlin to get in. Later, Mother and Son stay with glooming checks in the masses, gets shaked from the Basses and sing both, when Bushido sings about every unimaginable Sextechniques. A Boy that only can dream about his first Beard, is filming Bushidos LIfe with his Handy. Between two Songs he stops to record. On the Display appears the Screensave. It´s a Photo. A Penis is stucked in the Behind of a Women.

    Sido and Bushido are Softies, if you speak about Frauenarzt. "It really has to be hardcore with me", says he. He calls his Songs "Takes". They are Rapingfantasies that are yelled into the Microphone. Raping alone, in the Group, with Punches. Like all Pornorappers, also Frauenarzt has a Gang-Bangsong. In that he screams: "All on one Women." "The slut is the meat." "Hey slut, open your legs!" "We fuck you until your lips break." His CDs are a Collection of such Nightmares. He sells about 10 000 of them in each month.

    Fraunearzt is the 28 year old Vincento de Marcos from Berlin-Tempelhof, that broke his Jobtraining and pulls his Baseballcape deep into his face, until it reaches the eyebrows. He sits in front of a Milkcoffee. His fiews are hasty, all around the Café. "So, what´s in my textes, likes each Women. The younger, the more. Normal.", says he. If that´s real, if that´s not more like a sick Phantasy, then Frauenarzt must have to know such Womens, that life this kind of Sexuality. "Sure", he says, gets his phone out of his jacket and looks into his contacts. "No, that one is not possible, she´s not even 16. That only leads to problems. But this one here, the Jessica×, she´s 19. She´s okay." The cellphone´s calling. Jessica arrives.

    "I´m the one with the twelf."
    She´s small, almost tender. "I´m the one with the twelf", she says as Hello. Twelf? "Yes, that´s my Record. Well, until now." Jessica had Sex with twelf men at the same time. "And everyone of them came, really!" She´s so proud. She´s the Jessica with the twelf. She is someone.

    She grew up in a small Village in Thüringen, with her Mother and the Pornos of her Mother. She was the first one in Class that had Sex. "Of course I told this to everyone. That was cool." Her Lifestory: Breaking up with school, breaking up with the first job training, breaking up with the second job training. Right now, she´s not educatet. Jessica is a "Hardcorefan" of Frauenarzt. She knows each of his Songs. "He brings what moves us. That´s how life is."

    Alos Werner Meyer-Deters knows the most of this Textes. In the Caritasadvicecenter of Bochum, the Pedologe cares about young people, that are not victims from sexual Violence, but perpetrators. Almost everyone of them is a Boy. Many of them has to spend their time in a stationary clinic. At the Begin of the Therapy, the Therapists take all of their MP3players away. "We don´t even listen anymore to what´s on that", says Meyer-Deters. "We already know, what they are listening to: Sido and all of this Crap. That makes so many Damage! Someone really should take care about that."

    Meyer-Deters is the Endstation of Sexual Castody. He meets the weakest of them all. It are Boys, which Parents could not teach them Rules, no Respect, no Power. Love, that they don´t even know from Television. The Boys are not protectet from the Shameless, the Effect of the all-day Pornography. "Many come from a Milleu, in which they grow up castodied. There, the sexual castody is only one aspect", says Meyer-Deters. So, are the Parents guilty? "It´s not that easy", says the Pedologe. "This Boys are also a Product of a misunderstood Liberality in the Economy in total."

    Boy rapes Sister
    The Offences, which has Meyer-Deters to deal with, are no Doctorgames. That are serious Rapings from perpetators, that are not even in the Pupertät. (under 15) Boys rape their siblings, schoolbuddys or neighbourhood´s children. Alone or in the Group. Some are tie their victims, punch them or abuse them with screwdrivers. The most of them repeat their Offences. They don´t feel an urge to do this at once. They search their victims, think out the Offence and get turned on by even thinking about that.

    Youth Sexualoffenders are no Borderproblem. Their Number doubled in only 10 years, to more than 4000 in the year of 2004. Almost each weak, Media reports about new cases of the youth and Children, that abuse Children of the same age in a sexual way. In each fifth case of Childabuse, so think Crimilogists, are the perpetors also under 18 years of age. The Cologne Criminalpsychologist Sabine Nowara did a Inquiryproject about the Treatment of more than 300 underaged Sexualoffenders. "The Danger, that hides in the sexual Borderlinecrossing of Children and the Youth, is really worrying. And she gets massive underexaminatet", says Sabine Nowara.

    Many Boys, that Werner Meyer-Deters deals with in Bochung, have four things in Common: 1. "Significant is that Pornosocialisation, especially with Extremepornos." 2. "Most of them have Parents, that showed them an absolute borderless Behaving with Sexuality." 3. "The Parents are often from the under social Mileus." Only 30 Percent of the Fathers and 10 Percent of the Mothers have a finished Job Training. 4. Sido, Bushido and Frauenarzt.

    In Sommer, Werner Meyers-Deters spend many hours with an eleven year old Son. That raped his four year old Sister many times and watched Pornos before to get in the mood. At first, the Boy was not willing to talk. Then he said: "But the others, they also do it, everyone of them." The others, that are the ones in the Porno.



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