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    Re: Deleting eddiefever plus ehr posts

    Idril - 22.11.2006, 19:37

    Deleting eddiefever plus ehr posts
    She asked for it, so we're doing it.



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    Mela - 22.11.2006, 19:39


    Nooooo. :cry: :cry: Idril,please try to make her stay.



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    Idril - 22.11.2006, 19:40


    I tried, but she doesn't want to. If you want to talk to her, to that, I'm pretty angry at her right now and it's not good if I talk about her now, because I would only do it in a bad way. So please understand why I don't post any details. For details you have to ask eddiefever.



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    newnativspirit - 22.11.2006, 22:28


    I´ve been thinking about it some time, but after Idril, who is also the moderator of this board, told me that it didn´t make any sense to talk to eddiefever, it´s the best for this board to delete the thread. I´ll keep eddiefever in the member list for another week. Maybe once she calmed down a bit, she will see things different and might want to come back, but I doubt.
    Idril was trying hard to explain to eddiefever that she just misunderstood the statement. At the end she got attacked as well and that was the point where she decided to stop talking about it.

    I´ll delete the thread now and bring up another one ... the topic in general is a good one and so I don´t want to miss it on this board.

    I hope you all agree with our decision - actually it was eddiefever who asked us to delete her. I´m really, really sorry that it ended up this way, but we really tried to talk to eddiefever, but she didn´t WANT to listen! There was no reason for this fight and it doesn´t make sense at all ...



    Re: Deleting eddiefever plus ehr posts

    Idril - 24.11.2006, 11:22


    Thanks for explaining, Anne. I still can't think about this subject, without getting mad and sad.



    Re: Deleting eddiefever plus ehr posts

    Mela - 24.11.2006, 11:37


    Idril wrote: Thanks for explaining, Anne. I still can't think about this subject, without getting mad and sad.

    What really happend?



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    Idril - 24.11.2006, 11:51


    I don't want to say anything bad about her. That we started to fight is also my fault. It still hurts to talk about this subject, because eddiefever is/was (I'm not sure if she still wants to be) my friend. All I will say is that she acted the most stubborn way you can imagine. She didn't listen to me and turned the words in my mouth around. She didn't read my posts right and in the end she even told me I wasn't reading her's right, which is complete nonesense. And whatever I said she still had the opinion, that Anne had attacked her and that her apologize was a lie. And she even blamed her to act like CC and she told me I had no idea of how CC could act (if I really had no idea about this, then why the hell did I leave CC's board???). She made me so angry. And when I asked her, to forget this whole thing and come back to the board she said she could do this, but that would mean she would pretend to be happy. If she really forgot what had happened, why the hell should she be pretending then??? And then she apologized without meaning it and aaaaarg the way she said it made me sooooo angry!!!!!
    And I had told Anne before that eddiefever would take this message personal and eddiefever used to use this argument against both of us. And when I told her, why I knew she would take this message personal (because she had already done that on CC's board and other boards by apoligizing for things that weren't for her, that didn't even deal with her. There only had to be a quote of her and she came and apologized with a huge message) she told me to proof it, because that wa sher right etc. How shall I proof something when I promissed never to return to CC's board?

    All I can say is I really tried my best but she just didn't want to listen to me or believe that she did a mistake (she even said "maybe I did a mistake, but as long as I don't beieve it it is no mistake") or she just didn't want to be honest enough to say "ok, I made a big mistake, I'm sorry." I still get mad and sad when I think about the discussion we had and I'm not happy with how this whole thing turned out to be either. I wished it had been different, but you all girls knew how Anne ment her message, didn't you?



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    evenstar - 25.11.2006, 11:13


    I understood. I've always said that the internet can be a dangerous tool because written words are open for interpretation. You can't always tell if somebody is saying something in a nice way or yelling at you, for example. Sometimes people take it as a personal attack when that wasn't the way it was intended. I should know. I've lost friends this way unfortunately.

    It's a shame this had to happen.



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    Idril - 25.11.2006, 11:42


    Yeah, I know. But that she still didn't want to change her mind when everyone told her that she missunderstood the message...



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    newnativspirit - 26.11.2006, 15:51


    Eddiefever is thinking about coming back. So as soon as she´s made a decision I will delete this thread. I just want to let you know.

    Plus I want to tell you that I´m deleting pictures out of the quotes, because they need too much space on the board and slows it down. So, if you answer a post and their is no need for the pic, please, delete it before posting. Thank you!



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    Idril - 26.11.2006, 17:29


    it's cool she wants to come back. I'm glad to hear that.

    And about tjose pic-thing: Np with me (I hope :wink: )



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    eddiefever - 26.11.2006, 17:37


    hey your online
    how was your b-day?



    Re: Deleting eddiefever plus ehr posts

    Idril - 26.11.2006, 17:41


    Written in the b-day-topic :wink:



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    eddiefever - 26.11.2006, 17:55


    yeah i saw it a bit to late :oops: :oops:
    hihihi



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    Idril - 26.11.2006, 18:01


    doesn't matter :wink:



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    eddiefever - 26.11.2006, 18:11


    i know
    ooh man i'm in such a wierd state today
    i kepe on having funny thoughts and kepe on laughing even about things that aren't funny
    like when i watched POTC2 i kept on laughing about jack ,will and commodore
    when they were fighting
    ooh my ,here i go again
    hihihhihhhihi



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    Idril - 26.11.2006, 18:15


    hm, don't understand why not to laugh at that scene I laughed the whole movie (only not when Jack died :cry: :cry: :cry: )



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    eddiefever - 26.11.2006, 18:23


    yeah same here
    i just kepe on laughing about the fact that Elizabeth wants to distract them from fighting
    i would have just jumped in the midld eof the figth and they'll have to stop than
    right?
    wouldn;t you?



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    Idril - 26.11.2006, 18:30


    I don't know. I think I had racted the same way as elizabeth.



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    eddiefever - 26.11.2006, 19:07


    really ,wow
    cool
    i know i would have jumped right in there
    i already dot hat when ppl really fight
    i just try to separate them so they won't hurt one another with their fists
    i guess it runs in the family ,cause all my familymembers on my mothers side are like that
    2 days ago one fo my nefews separated his friend with someone he didn't even know
    he didn't want trouble in his fav. clubhouse
    so eh told them if they wnat to fight go outside and first talk cause mosth fights begin with misunderstanding
    so they went outside and my nefew 2
    tahn the guy taht my nefew didn't know told my nefew what he is doing here ,it wasn't his bizz
    and that guy putt his fist on my nefews eye
    my nefew went blanka nd jumped on top of him and kept on fighting
    my nefew's friend was trying to pull my nefew of the guy
    than there came another guy and he STABBED my nefew ,my nefew didn'ty feel anything cause of the adrenaline and kpet on fighting the guy who he was on top of
    and my nefews friend pushed the strange guy of my nefew and caleld the cops

    my nefew had lost a lot of blood and had to go to the hospital
    he had 7 stabwounds
    1 in his back ,2 in his side (just above his hip) and 4 in his leg
    thankfully no dangerzones were hit
    the docs left the wounds open so it would not get infected easy ,

    ( cause of the blood running out the filt would go out as well ,of course eh also had a thingy taht makes sure that the blood in a ssack would go in his body ,cause he couldn't loose more blood ,it woudl ahve been to dangerous)
    and he had air behin dhis longs ,they were a bit scared that his long was hit from the back ,but the air behind his long didn't grow so it wasn't a dangerous thing

    today they closed the wounds and send him home ,he's in a wheelchair ,
    and has to take it veyr easy
    he'll eb able to walk in a while ,
    he just needs a lot fo rest

    i don't know what it is
    hwo stupid can ppl be to use a knife
    can't they use their fists like my nefew and the other guy?
    btw the man is not yet caught by the cops ,but the guy who punshed my nefew is arrested ,cause eh knows the guy who had the knife
    and he wa steh one who started that part fo the fight ,and of course the cops hpe taht the guy will talk about the other man

    i heard this news when i cam ehome from work yesterday
    i wa slike : yeah right ,don't say these stupid thinsg ,but my parents were serious
    thankfully my nefew is a hard guy
    he's doing well in the surcomstances
    i never thought something like this would happen in my family
    and wished it would never happen to anyone
    but that wish will not come true
    but ppl can de-crease it
    man nothing ever happends in my family ,but lately there is only bad luck

    but'i'll kepe in mind after the rain comes the sun right?
    so after bad luck ,luck will return



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    Idril - 26.11.2006, 19:11


    awww scaring thing! I hope your nephew will get healthy soon!



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    eddiefever - 26.11.2006, 19:14


    yeah me 2
    thanks
    i just knwo he'll be fine

    i just don't get ti why someone has to fight with a knife ,even if my nefew was the one with the knife i would have not forgive him for using it
    you can kill soemoen with it ,you can even kill someoen with your fists if you hit right
    every fist has it's risks ,but with knifes and guns the risk is much higher than with bare hands



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    Idril - 26.11.2006, 19:16


    Yeah, that's true. But I don't get why people have to fight anyway. :?



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    eddiefever - 26.11.2006, 19:35


    hhmm ,i do ,but it depents on the reason
    still if ppl do fight than use your hand sand nothing else
    btw why i get it
    it's because i have seen some fights with reasoning behind it
    still it shouldn't happen but i do get why ppl do it
    i think taht ppl who fight can't win with words and with that i don't mean shouting and curshing but ,being smart and talk about why you wnat to fight with each other
    i have to say i'm also guilty of fighting ,at least fo wanting to fight
    thankfully most of the time si wanted to fight i only ahd the wish to fight and not really did ti ,but there were moments i did fight

    and cause of that i started learning WING CHUNG KUNG FU
    they thought me NOT TO FIGHT ,but TO DEFENT :!:
    wich has changed my life
    i have wanted to fight only once after those lessons
    and it was just wanting to fight ,not fighting for real
    and i had my last lesson when i was 16
    so it's been 6 years hihihi
    ooh how i feel so old now :lol: :lol:

    i always knew i had a lot fo power in my body
    so i knew that if i didn't learn to control my strenght i could hurt someone
    one day
    and i was 7 or 8 years old when i said taht to myself ,nothing had happen or anything ,besides wressling with my nefews ,who i won from a lot
    because i won a lot from the guys i knew that



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    eddiefever - 26.11.2006, 19:36


    wow i talk a lot today

    and my brain ins't in the funny zone anymore
    i guess :!:



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    Idril - 26.11.2006, 19:38


    Yeah, but that subject is pretty serious, isn't it? ThereÄs nothing to laugh about :wink:



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    eddiefever - 26.11.2006, 19:42


    yeah ,i'm glad i'm not in the funnystate anymore ,cause my brain almost mailfunctioned
    hiihhiihi :wink:



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    enelya06 - 27.11.2006, 16:09


    Idril wrote: doesn't matter :wink:

    Hey girls - hope you all have a nice weekend! I missed everyone but hopefull in a few weeks I'll be able to get on-line from home.

    Though I had a very busy weekend and am extremely tired - I was happy to be able to get back to you all.

    My asthma kicked in last night - my mom was frying eggplant and the alarm went off - by the time she got it fixed and back to the stove the eggplant was burnt, she tried to remove the skillet and some of the oil splite out and caught a dish rag on fire. She managed to get the fire put out but the house was sure smokey....we had the ceiling fans going and the back door opened up...but the smoke sort of got to me and I almost went to the hospital via EMS - but I was able to conter act it - took me a couple of hours but I finally was able to breath normal again....I was hospitalized in 04 for an acute asthma attack - and almost thought I'd be last night. This is only my second so I guess I'm pretty lucky. Will take me a while to catch up with everything so please bear with me.

    Later,



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    Idril - 27.11.2006, 17:40


    wow! I'm glad you feel better now. And I will keep my fingers crossed for your computer :wink:



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    enelya06 - 27.11.2006, 21:10


    Idril wrote: wow! I'm glad you feel better now. And I will keep my fingers crossed for your computer :wink:

    Thanks bunches! I will be glad when 4:30 gets here so I can head out the door for home - I still have not recooperated from all the work I did over the weekend.



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    mouseears89 - 28.11.2006, 05:57


    Two things:
    1. Enelya- glad to hear you are better and still with us. :wink: I'll cross my fingers for you too (I haven't used that phrase in quite a long time- teenager or maybe even younger). :D :lol: :lol:

    2. Eddiefever- are you staying with us on this board or leaving? I don't want you to go, but I also don't want to post something for you if you're not going to reply. I would feel like I was hangin' out in space waiting for a reply- so I don't want to do that. :lol: :lol:



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    Idril - 28.11.2006, 16:34


    enelya06 wrote: Idril wrote: wow! I'm glad you feel better now. And I will keep my fingers crossed for your computer :wink:

    Thanks bunches! I will be glad when 4:30 gets here so I can head out the door for home - I still have not recooperated from all the work I did over the weekend.

    np :wink:



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    enelya06 - 28.11.2006, 16:38


    Idril wrote: enelya06 wrote: Idril wrote: wow! I'm glad you feel better now. And I will keep my fingers crossed for your computer :wink:

    Thanks bunches! I will be glad when 4:30 gets here so I can head out the door for home - I still have not recooperated from all the work I did over the weekend.

    np :wink:

    I wish JCP had computers along with the other stuff they have - I could get one on my card...but I'm hoping by the christmas break to have one at home.



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    Idril - 28.11.2006, 16:43


    Like I said: I will keep my fingers crossed! :wink:



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    enelya06 - 28.11.2006, 20:43


    mouseears89 wrote: Two things:
    1. Enelya- glad to hear you are better and still with us. :wink: I'll cross my fingers for you too (I haven't used that phrase in quite a long time- teenager or maybe even younger). :D :lol: :lol:

    2. Eddiefever- are you staying with us on this board or leaving? I don't want you to go, but I also don't want to post something for you if you're not going to reply. I would feel like I was hangin' out in space waiting for a reply- so I don't want to do that. :lol: :lol:

    Thanks mouseears! I'm feeling better today - not as tired - sort of took it easy last night. HAve to work tonight and tomorrow night - then I'm off on Thursday night - then I work Fri, Sat, Sun and Monday....long weekend ahead.



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    Mela - 28.11.2006, 22:17


    enelya06 wrote: mouseears89 wrote: Two things:
    1. Enelya- glad to hear you are better and still with us. :wink: I'll cross my fingers for you too (I haven't used that phrase in quite a long time- teenager or maybe even younger). :D :lol: :lol:

    2. Eddiefever- are you staying with us on this board or leaving? I don't want you to go, but I also don't want to post something for you if you're not going to reply. I would feel like I was hangin' out in space waiting for a reply- so I don't want to do that. :lol: :lol:

    Thanks mouseears! I'm feeling better today - not as tired - sort of took it easy last night. HAve to work tonight and tomorrow night - then I'm off on Thursday night - then I work Fri, Sat, Sun and Monday....long weekend ahead.

    What are you working with Enelya?



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    enelya06 - 29.11.2006, 14:05


    Mela wrote: enelya06 wrote: mouseears89 wrote: Two things:
    1. Enelya- glad to hear you are better and still with us. :wink: I'll cross my fingers for you too (I haven't used that phrase in quite a long time- teenager or maybe even younger). :D :lol: :lol:

    2. Eddiefever- are you staying with us on this board or leaving? I don't want you to go, but I also don't want to post something for you if you're not going to reply. I would feel like I was hangin' out in space waiting for a reply- so I don't want to do that. :lol: :lol:

    Thanks mouseears! I'm feeling better today - not as tired - sort of took it easy last night. HAve to work tonight and tomorrow night - then I'm off on Thursday night - then I work Fri, Sat, Sun and Monday....long weekend ahead.


    What are you working with Enelya?

    My part-time job is JC Penneys Fine Jewerly (been doing it for 3 years) we get extremely busy during the holidays. Black Friday I felt like an octopuss I was pulled in every direction.....it was fun though but tiring. After Christmas it will drop off big time then it will be back again around Valentines Day.



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    newnativspirit - 29.11.2006, 14:51


    Yesterday my boss called me, I need to work today ... I signed a contract that I have to come to work anytime they need us to come - so I had to work today and get everything organized with the kids, because it wasn´t planed !!! grrrr well, it was only a 4 hr shift and I just got home. Now we are getting ready to leave, because we are invited for a kids bd party ... Does this sound like stress? YES, it does - LOL - because when we come home I need to get ready to go to my aerobic class in the gym and I didn´t have any time to prepare it ... LOOOOOOOOOOOOOL
    So maybe I won´t come online the time I use to be online on a Wednesday, Idril - we might not see each other today ... but I try to do my best! Maybe I´ll catch you before I´m leaving.



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    Idril - 29.11.2006, 17:41


    awwww don't stress yourself even more! We will see on thursday, if we can't meet today. :wink: And if we can't meet on thursday we will meet on another day. Don't be afraid, you wont get rid of me. :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:



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    newnativspirit - 29.11.2006, 18:40


    see now I´m here and you are not :cry:

    tomorrow? well, I´ll be online all afternoon after work tomorrow trying to catch up with some work ... you won´t be there before 8 pm, right? Friday the same - I´ll be online - the kids will be gone with their dad, so I can talk to you - LOL



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    Idril - 29.11.2006, 19:14


    No, I will be online earlier. We just use the wooden horse for training and will finish at 6 p.m., which means I will be at home between 6:30 and 6:45 :wink: which means again I can come online about 7 p.m. :lol:



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    Mela - 29.11.2006, 20:55


    I hope that you girls can meet in person really soon. :D



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    enelya06 - 29.11.2006, 21:04


    Mela wrote: I hope that you girls can meet in person really soon. :D

    I think they already have met in person.



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    Idril - 29.11.2006, 21:08


    yep yep, we did. Two times already. :wink: Next time will be - hopefully - this silvester :wink:



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    Mela - 29.11.2006, 22:15


    enelya06 wrote: Mela wrote: I hope that you girls can meet in person really soon. :D

    I think they already have met in person.

    Well..yeah,I know that they have already met in person.I meant that I hope that they will meet again really soon.



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    newnativspirit - 29.11.2006, 23:19


    YES, YOU GOT TO COME FOR NEW YEAR`S !!!!!

    we will have lots of fun !!!! PROMISE !!! And I keep my promises !!!

    I´m really looking forward to seeing you again !!!

    7 pm is perfect - my kids will leave here at 6 pm and if I start my training right away I´ll be done at 7 plus taking a shower - let´s say 7:15 - I´ll be there !!! Yippieh !

    btw - my aerobic class was terrible tonight! I didn´t have my mind free for it and I did so many mistakes - I don´t think that the people didn´t like it, but I didn´t feel comfortable ... I hate it when it´s like that. I´m always well prepared and don´t like going to my classes without an idea what I´m gonna do with the people.



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    Idril - 30.11.2006, 18:50


    ok, I will try my best for new year's :wink:

    allright, I will be there ate 7:15 waiting for you (I'm already here and it's 6:52 p.m. :wink: )



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    eddiefever - 10.12.2006, 19:33


    mouseears89 wrote: Two things:
    1. Enelya- glad to hear you are better and still with us. :wink: I'll cross my fingers for you too (I haven't used that phrase in quite a long time- teenager or maybe even younger). :D :lol: :lol:

    2. Eddiefever- are you staying with us on this board or leaving? I don't want you to go, but I also don't want to post something for you if you're not going to reply. I would feel like I was hangin' out in space waiting for a reply- so I don't want to do that. :lol: :lol:

    my account won't be delete ,but i won't be on as much as i did
    i have a lot of things to do like i have explained in a previous post
    i still enjoy comming here when i do find the time for it ,like today :D
    and i've noticed everyone is talking a lot ,i have to do a lot of catching up
    with means you are all having a good time hihihihi :D and eventho i'm not there when things are posted i still feel the joy and laughter wich keeps me comming back to this board :D :D



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    Idril - 10.12.2006, 19:38


    So if we laugh a bit more you will stay longer? lol :roll:



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    enelya06 - 11.12.2006, 13:52


    Idril wrote: So if we laugh a bit more you will stay longer? lol :roll:

    Right now all I want to do is run away :roll: my weekend was a weekend from *%&#. Sat was another black Friday only worse - it was semi record breaking for me but I'm so tired.

    Glad you will be around Eddiefever. I'm going to try and get into chatting sometime today or at least by weeks end. I'm also hoping to have a computer for Christmas...still working on that one though.

    later



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    newnativspirit - 11.12.2006, 16:27


    wow - doesn´t sound good ... my week-end was ... let´s say it was quite good, but the next one will be a busy one ... kindergarten is taking part at our annual christmas market and they need some moms to help ... well, seems like there are no moms ... I´m working on the early shift Sat and so I said that I only help, if they don´t find anyone else and only if my help is needed at around 14:30, because once I´m home, I´ll stay home. I also want to get some things done at home before Christmas, so I really don´t need to help on the christmas market ... they didn´t call yet and I hope they won´t. Wednesday, Thursday, Friday and Sat on the early shift really is enough for one week. Doesn´t mean that I can rest when I come home. Still got to kids to take care off, when I´m here ... means I´m up from 5 am to like 10 pm and I still do have my aerobic-classes on Wednesday evening ... ok - it´s not only the week-end that´s gonna be busy - lol - it´s the whole week - therefore I will rest tomorrow and enjoy my day ...
    Did this help you a little bit?



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    Idril - 11.12.2006, 19:43


    awww *big hugs for everyone* :D



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    evenstar - 12.12.2006, 01:39


    Anne, I really don't know how mothers do it. I feel exhausted just hearing about it. I'm busy enough just trying to take care of myself! :lol:



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    newnativspirit - 12.12.2006, 09:18


    It works - somehow ... :wink: but I´m looking forward to the holidays. I feel kind of stressed out and start yelling at my kids for no reason - that´s a bad sign. But I do also put myself under this high pressure all the time - I always try to do things the perfect way or at least pretty close to perfect - lol
    That´s why I´m working on my websites right now, because I want it to be perfect for my boss - when he´s checking out the website. I need his support, so I have to present him a professional concept ...
    Right now I try to work and relax at the same time - lol - I gave my kids a ride to kindergarten and school this morning and now I´m back home in my bed ... ok, with my computer ... a coffee and lots of ideas on my mind ... later on I will go and pick up my kids, order some pizza and stay in bed for the rest of the day ... tonight my kids will stay with their dad, so I can work on my website and go to sleep early... need to get up at 4:30 tomorrow morning ...
    But I have to admit, that without the help of my parents and my ex-husband´s parents I couldn´t go to work and would depend on the social system. I´m not making any money with NewNativeSpirit yet and so that´s the only way to have a sure income - lol



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    Idril - 12.12.2006, 17:25


    awwww coffee..... :roll: :roll: :roll:



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    evenstar - 13.12.2006, 01:41


    Yeah, I imagine it would be even harder without the support of the grandparents! I often wonder how the wives of the expats living here cope. I have some of them in my office with young children and no family over here to lean on (and living in a foreign country too). I don't know how they do it.



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    Idril - 13.12.2006, 16:13


    I couldn't do this... I think. :?



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    newnativspirit - 13.12.2006, 17:25


    ... you couldn´t do what?



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    Idril - 13.12.2006, 17:59


    To raise my children all alone.



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    enelya06 - 13.12.2006, 21:38


    evenstar wrote: Anne, I really don't know how mothers do it. I feel exhausted just hearing about it. I'm busy enough just trying to take care of myself! :lol:

    I've a 17 year old who can look out for herself but we do things together. When she was younger all my time was devoted to her and her activities. Even though she's independent now with driving and a part-time job - she still likes for me to take her to school and grandmother to come and get her. She normally drives to and from school but hasn't been feeling well these last few weeks. The way this weather has been - allergies and virsus abound.



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    newnativspirit - 13.12.2006, 22:24


    Idril, sometimes you just don´t have a choice!!! Whatelse would you do, if your husband would leave you behind with the kids? Run away, too? Noway! You too would stay with your kids and do whatever you can do to make them happy and feel more comfortable with the situation. I love my kids and I´m really not a perfect mom, but I try to manage everything: my private life and me being mom plus working for a sure income, doing my aerobics and trying hard NewNativeSpirit to become a successful company! Wow, that´s really a lot I´m doing ... lol...but all this keeps me alive and makes me happy and there is nothing better on this earth than your kids putting their little arms around your neck and telling you that they always will be there for you and that they love you !!! That´s all I want for my life: that my kids do love me! And I know for sure, that you would be able to do all this as well !!!



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    enelya06 - 13.12.2006, 22:30


    newnativspirit wrote: Idril, sometimes you just don´t have a choice!!! Whatelse would you do, if your husband would leave you behind with the kids? Run away, too? Noway! You too would stay with your kids and do whatever you can do to make them happy and feel more comfortable with the situation. I love my kids and I´m really not a perfect mom, but I try to manage everything: my private life and me being mom plus working for a sure income, doing my aerobics and trying hard NewNativeSpirit to become a successful company! Wow, that´s really a lot I´m doing ... lol...but all this keeps me alive and makes me happy and there is nothing better on this earth than your kids putting their little arms around your neck and telling you that they always will be there for you and that they love you !!! That´s all I want for my life: that my kids do love me! And I know for sure, that you would be able to do all this as well !!!

    I could not have said it better myself.



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    evenstar - 14.12.2006, 01:42


    Awww, mothers really are heroes!



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    mouseears89 - 14.12.2006, 05:21


    newnativspirit wrote: Idril, sometimes you just don´t have a choice!!! Whatelse would you do, if your husband would leave you behind with the kids? Run away, too? Noway! You too would stay with your kids and do whatever you can do to make them happy and feel more comfortable with the situation. I love my kids and I´m really not a perfect mom, but I try to manage everything: my private life and me being mom plus working for a sure income, doing my aerobics and trying hard NewNativeSpirit to become a successful company! Wow, that´s really a lot I´m doing ... lol...but all this keeps me alive and makes me happy and there is nothing better on this earth than your kids putting their little arms around your neck and telling you that they always will be there for you and that they love you !!! That´s all I want for my life: that my kids do love me! And I know for sure, that you would be able to do all this as well !!!

    Kudos to you Anne- and to all single moms out there. **HUGS**



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    Idril - 14.12.2006, 20:30


    @ Anne sure, if had no other choice I would stay with my children. I couldn't leave someone or something helpless alone. I just can't do stuff like that. But I had not enough strengh to raise them to be good people - I fear... :? Do you get what I mean?


    And yeah, mothers are heros!



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    enelya06 - 14.12.2006, 20:57


    Idril wrote: @ Anne sure, if had no other choice I would stay with my children. I couldn't leave someone or something helpless alone. I just can't do stuff like that. But I had not enough strengh to raise them to be good people - I fear... :? Do you get what I mean?


    And yeah, mothers are heros!

    I will say it's difficult raising them alone - even though my daughter's dad is around - he's not always been a part of her life - she literally felt diserted by him a few years ago but now that he's starting to do more with her it's not bad - too her step-mom apologized to her for not being the type of step-mom she should have been, but that doesn't erase 12 years of treating someone like a dog. Keri is a good kid just sometimes head strong like her dad. Too my divorce didn't help her either - she is very protective of me.



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    Idril - 14.12.2006, 21:04


    awwww



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